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ue & Will ::) Please go ahead, MRD! ga
(12,MRD) Thank you. I might as well put the issue and take the heat
(grin). My position on safe words is simple and it is based on many, many
years of experience. Safe words have, in my view, no purpose that is
worthwhile and that is not handled much better by other forms of commun-
ication. They do, however, have the very negative effect of giving a
submissive person the false feeling that he or Ami Tokito has the ultimate
ability to stop a dominant person from doing whatever. In short, if you
want a dominant to stop something, they may or may not stop, same as with
a safe word. But at least you won't feel that you have an absolute veto
power over the dominant that, in fact, you may not. Don't trust to a safe
word--ever! If you don't completely trust your dominant and still wish to
submit to him or Ami's , then make sure that someone checks on you regularly.
THAT may help, but a safe word will not. I thank you, and now let the
good times roll. ga
(12,Warren G.) !
(12,:: Allysse ::) !
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